Dude!
I have waited so desperately to write this post. I have my chance today and am not missing it no matter what. I’m not sleeping until i finish this one.
So, here we go. I have not been single in a long time so i was always scared of updating what i ever felt for love on my blog. I always had a “what if” on my mind, what if, he reads my blog and leaves me but dude, i don’t give a shit. I am gonna write what i feel and if “the one” cannot accept it, i can’t care much. Oh wait, and this is no attitude am throwing.
So guys, I honestly, genuinely and most sincerely feel that Love is BULLSHIT. Hang on! well, yeah, am angry right now so may be that’s the reason am writing this shit but then why the fuck am i always angry in relationships?
What goes wrong in love that makes you feel so shitty?
Yeah! You’re right. I have an answer to this. Nobody, i know of, was born a playboy or a playgirl. When love happens, its innocent and pristine. No girl likes to go on a dumping spree and am sure, no guy just wants to fuck in love. But, just cause some bad people give you bad experience, you stop believing in that divine emotion that constitutes you.
How fair is that?
I see people talking about their past all the time. They are not concerned about who they are with in their present and then they say, relationships are a mess. I don’t deny the fact that you don’t learn from your past but do you pick up the right things to learn? Cause some intelligent people make their past so significant by not giving their present what it deserves cause they think if they give their 100% again and things don’t work, they’ll end up as losers.
Isn’t this so amazing? I don’t wanna give my best cause i don’t wanna get hurt if it doesn’t work out. Is that how you define “love”? I have moved on in life, I’m over my past but am still not going to consider my present as a fresh experience and I’m over my past. Really?
You’re over your past which is why you can’t stop connecting your past with your present? Which is why, instead of making things work in your present and giving your present a better individual, who has learned from his past and worked on where all he needed improvements, you just give your loused up self to someone and expect things to run smoothly. Sorry to say this but that’s not how things work.
It all comes down to one single word- Belief
Do you believe enough in yourself that you wont be wrong this time? Do you believe in your choices that you’re making? Do you believe that every individual is a different individual, is a new person and, that, no two experiences are ever going to be the same? Do you believe in giving yourself an honest chance in life, to love, to live, to laugh again?
I don’t think you do. Cause you, like everyone else, can honk about things not going right. You can call love bullshit but never see what makes it so? And you are too egoistic to admit ,you are the reason behind, some people don’t believe in love, reason why some call it bullshit.
Dude! Relations don’t bother you cause everybody needs it, commitments don’t bother cause you can break them anyway, sex doesn’t bother cause its not a big deal these days to fuck someone while you’re still confused about your feelings. What bothers is, you don’t want the bad part.
You just want the ever so perfect, ever so smooth relationship which, i am afraid, cannot happen if you’re not willing to make efforts yourself. And, if you’re too busy to make any efforts cause there’s so much that needs to be accomplished, you don’t deserve a relationship, a commitment or even sex.
Relations end cause one of you decides to make less efforts cause the other is already making enough. They end cause one of you forgets how incomplete you’d feel on your graduation day when you wont have your special someone around..and the time you will take to realize what’s gone, you’d be late to start again..
And the cycle of, make-up, make-out and break-up will go on and people will keep cribbing if there actually is some word like “love” or is life just about your achievements, the one’s you can’t share with anyone.
If it has to eventually end on this, why love at all? Its like you always knew it was going to end cause you were not going to invest and you were still giving a go at it to experience what comes along.
I actually have more respect for western culture in my eyes today, atleast, they don’t fake love just to be in someone’s bed.
I’m happy now cause once again rules, norms and ethics can shove off. People who honk about it the most, break them first. A man is known by his conduct, not his accomplishments and there is not a man, morally clean.
How can emotions be any pure when the man who has them has lost its quintessence?
I just feel unfortunate for having known some people who can give lectures on spirituality when they have never essentially indulged in introspection. How would you discover love and its divinity if materialistic pleasure, is what you seek?
A person who cannot value the living beings, who can think, talk and walk..wont be able to do justice to the education he has attained..cause a man whose soul has died, is a man who doesn’t exist. And dead can do no justice to anything.
We are so diminutive to experience something as bountiful and as complete as LOVE. What we explore now a days, is just an imitation of love, incomplete and rare.
Hence,
LOVE = BULLSHIT
